Merriam-Webster’s definition of confidence is “the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust.”
Confidence is a quality in ourselves that is so important to have, yet few people are truly and completely confident.
The often overused slogan, “fake it ‘til you make it” may be a cliché, but it’s true. If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else? We’ve all been there before, the first day at a new job or a first dance with a crush at the school formal. Questions start to race through your head: Do I belong here? Can I really do this job? What if I fail? It’s normal to have self-doubt, but in the real world, you can’t let these kind of worries preoccupy your mind and make you succumb to the belief that you aren’t good enough.
The public relations field is extremely demanding and fast-paced. Just ask any PR professional and they’ll tell you. A press release here, a media list there, having to meet multiple client demands and deadlines at any given notice. It’s not easy, but it’s never boring! But through all of the chaos, remaining as calm, collected and confident as possible is key.
Everyone thinks they can spot a confident person; their head is held high, they have a steady gaze, a firm handshake, and they walk into the room like they own it. But it’s quite possible that the super confident co-worker of yours also has moments when they’re shaking in their boots. Occasional anxiety here and there is normal and is actually a good thing—it keeps us on our toes.
Sometimes we all have to “fake it ‘til we make it,” but it’s ok. In fact, it’s human.
While it is important to believe in the people around you, it is more important to believe in yourself. You just might be surprised at the amazing things you can accomplish when you’re confident.
Practicing PR is all about grace under pressure, so keep your head held high and eyes on the prize.
— Megan Lydon, Intern